he is an abusive piece of shit and if I were there I'd kick his ass for you.  what a fucking asshole!  How dare he!  For the life of me I can't figure out why you stick around.  You CAN'T let him treat you like that....especially not in front of the kids.  Katie, you are sooo much better than that...you deserve someone who will give you the world, not someone who will throw juice on you...and cheat on you...and cuss at you....seriously.